More Than a Title: The Cautionary Tale of Identity

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We are living in a time where titles, accolades, and affiliations are mistaken for identity. It's a subtle deception—one that convinces people to define themselves not by who they are, but by what they do.

Ask someone what they do, and you’ll get a profession. Ask them who they are, and you’ll probably hear that same profession again.

But here’s the problem: when people define themselves solely by their profession, degree, or public persona, they unknowingly give away the power of true self-ownership. Their values, decisions, and even personal morals begin to orbit around their title. It’s no longer “I am a person who teaches,” it becomes “I am a teacher.” And when that title shifts, so does their identity.

This is more than semantics—it’s a social epidemic.

When Identity is Outsourced

The danger of outsourcing identity is that you end up living a life shaped by external expectations, not internal conviction. You become a reflection of what others see, rather than who you truly are.

And society doesn’t help. We live in a culture that wraps itself in superficiality. Titles are currency. Degrees become moral badges. Positions are mistaken for character. It's no wonder people are exhausted—because performing identity is draining.

This pursuit of status over substance creates a hollow prestige that rewards optics over authenticity. It teaches people to chase what looks meaningful, rather than what is meaningful.

Charlie Kirk and the Intellectual Echo Chamber

Look at people like Charlie Kirk, who frequently engages with college students on campuses across the country. Whether or not you agree with his politics, the interactions reveal something deeper: a societal arrogance rooted in academic elitism.

Kirk is self-educated—an autodidact, but it is not who he is, like me, it's how it's just how he learns. He’s learned through experience, reading, failure, and success. But when he enters academic spaces, he’s often ridiculed not because he’s unintelligent, but because he didn’t follow the conventional educational pipeline.

These students are smart, but many lack maturity. They conflate theoretical knowledge with wisdom. They carry the superiority complex of someone who has memorized ideas but not lived them. And that is the exact problem with letting your degree become your identity—it blinds you to any path outside your own.

True identity isn’t about having the right answers. It’s about asking the right questions.

Degrees Don’t Define You

Let’s be clear: this is not an anti-education message. I value education deeply. But a degree is not destiny, and a title is not truth.

You can be brilliant and lack character. You can be well-read and still be lost. You can be promoted and still not know yourself.

It’s time to stop measuring people by their LinkedIn bios and start seeing them for their being—not just their doing.

So, Who Are You Without the Title?

Strip away your title, your job, your accolades, your followers, your affiliations—and ask yourself: Who am I really?

If you hesitate, that’s okay. That’s the beginning of reclaiming your identity.

The answer isn’t in the job. It’s in the journey. It’s in the person—not the position.

Respect the Role. Reclaim the Self.

We can—and should—respect people for what they do. But never forget: what you do is not who you are.

You are more than your job.You are more than your rank.You are more than your degree.You are more than a title.

Let’s build a world where identity isn’t assigned—it’s discovered.

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